Friday, November 8, 2019

New life and other stuff



These past couple of weeks have been crazy.

I'll start with the best news I know: my new granddaughter was born Monday, October 28th at 11:35 a.m., weighing in at 7 pounds, 4 ounces. She joins her older brother, two years and a few months old, and two proud parents (Daughter and SIL).

Daughter giving birth was much like the last time around, as if it were simply on her to-do list that day.

We saw this new little bundle of joy soon after she was born, and she's a beauty. Is it possible to get wrapped around a tiny little finger in a matter of seconds?

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While we were awaiting the arrival of this little one, Wife and I received a text message from Older Son in Atlanta. They had gone to the ER earlier that morning with GS2 (our other grandson), as he was having breathing problems.

He had been admitted to the hospital with croup, which is a terrible cough that probably sounds worse than it is. But they were understandably concerned, as we all were.

My plan had been to drive to my office in Birmingham (about 1.5 hour south of Huntsville, where our granddaughter was born) Tuesday morning the 29th and work there until Thursday. Wife planned to stay in Huntsville and help until they were home from the hospital, and a day or two after.

As I was driving to Birmingham that morning, Wife called and said she had talked to Older Son and DIL. They had been put in ICU overnight, as GS2's condition was worsening.

"Someone needs to be there with them," she said.

"That someone will be me," I told her.

I arrived in Birmingham and worked a few hours. I got my team together and told them I would probably need to be in Atlanta for a couple of days. I loaded up my laptop and off I went, 2.5 hours east to Atlanta.

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I stayed in Atlanta until Friday morning. Older Son and DIL insisted on staying in the hospital overnight each night, but were glad to have me there as a reinforcement, and so one of them could leave during the day from time to time. It was a crazy, scary, emotional time, and before it was all over, GS2 not only had croup, but also RSV and an ear infection. He was one sick little guy.

I'm leaving out plenty of details, but suffice it to say, by the time I left Friday morning, he was stabilizing, and he got to go home Saturday morning.

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Backing up a little, Thursday night, the night before I left to come home, it had become clear I was getting something -- probably just a cold, but with everything I had been exposed to in that hospital, I decided to be overly cautious. I went straight to see the doctor when I got home.

He checked me out and said I obviously had some type of virus and that viruses are everywhere. You have to be careful, he said -- wash your hands often, disinfect, even wear a mask if you think you're going to be exposed to something.

I had already been advised by the docs in the hospital in Atlanta that I should not go around my new granddaughter for at least two weeks, with what I had been exposed to in that hospital. Now it was even more certain I would not be making a return visit anytime soon.

In the meantime, Wife had come home with plans to return in a few days when SIL would go back to work. I immediately started wearing a mask at home so hopefully she would stay well.

By the next day, however, she was also down. We had apparently picked up the same thing somewhere, maybe in the hospital in Huntsville as we awaited our granddaughter's birth. Who knows?

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Wife was able to stay home and rest this past week; I wasn't. She got better; I didn't.

I made a return doctor's visit Wednesday after two nights of coughing and little sleep. I got a shot and some other meds. Today (Friday) I'm feeling better, but I'm not 100 percent. This weekend we will both focus on getting well.

My fervent hope is we've gotten this stuff out of the way early this year and will be healthy throughout the rest of the cold and flu season. I'm sure planning on it.

6 comments:

Kelly said...

I am so sorry y'all had to deal with so much right in the midst of the birth of your granddaughter. Talk about a range of emotions! But.... thank God everyone seems to be doing well and is on the mend.

Congratulations on that sweet baby girl!!

BrightenedBoy said...

Wow, what a week! Congratulations on your new granddaughter. Your son is very lucky to have you as well, and no doubt your presence at your grandson's side was a great comfort to everyone. So glad that all parties involved seem to be feeling better now.

Ed said...

When it rains it sometimes pours. At least that is how it feels in our life sometimes. Glad the grandson is back home and congratulations on the new granddaughter. I hope I don't have either one for at least another decade or so when I am emotionally prepared for such things.

Debby said...

That RSV stuff is scary, scary stuff. I am glad beyond words that your grandson is improved and home again.

I missed my flu shot this year at work, and I'm worried about it. Your post just made me decide that I'm going to make an appointment and get it. Tim doesn't think they're important. I do for the very reasons you described. When you got a bug, you pass it on to others. Not everyone is able to fight it off.

Debby said...

PS Congratulations on the grandaughter and yes, it is completely possible to fall in love that quickly. Ask any grandparent.

sage said...

Congratulations on the new granddaughter and prayers that everyone gets well soon! Wow, that's a lot of viruses and sickness. Take care of yourselves.

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